"Lack of Boundaries invites Lack of respect." Rita Ghatourey
In life, you do not get what you deserve, you get what you believe, expect and deserve what you tolerate!
Many people tolerate bad behaviors and stay in toxic situations, whether it's a job or relationship out of fear!
This fear is based on thinking that you are not good enough or that you cannot get what you want. But the reality is that you cannot heal while staying in the same environment that got you sick.
Many people need to break up there attachments to toxic environments and people.
"You are what you tolerate." Mary Marshall
People will only treat you the way you allow them to treat you. Sometimes we allow people to take advantage of them of us with our permission.
"The way we treat ourselves sets the standards for others." Sonya Freidman
We are all created equally and have value to share. Never treat yourself less and never put anyone on a pedestal!
People who have high standards, a high self esteem, who love and value themselves will never tolerate abuse, rudeness and being taken for granted.
We have to set healthy and loving boundaries for ourselves so that people are aware of how we expect to be treated.
When we are offered terms that do not meet our expectations or when we are treated less than what we deserve; we must walk away and mean it.
That means we should walk away and never look back from everything and everyone who violates our standards and our dignity!
"In business as in life, you do not get what you deserve, you get only what you negotiate." Chester L. Karrass
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